Befrienders for residents in End of Life Nursing home

We are looking for compassionate, friendly individuals to provide companionship to socially isolated residents in an end-of-life nursing home. Many of these individuals have few or no visitors, and your presence could make a meaningful difference in their lives.

As a volunteer, you may provide short-term or long-term support, depending on the needs of each person. We maintain a list of residents with specific interests, and you will be matched with someone whose likes align with yours. For example, you might visit a gentleman who enjoys talking about cars or a lady who loves doing jigsaw puzzles.

You can choose the resident you'd like to visit and schedule visits at a time that works for you (between 11am and 4pm). We ask for a commitment of at least one hour per week, but we offer flexibility to fit your availability.

This opportunity can possibly be available to younger people if accompanied by a parent/guardian. 

References:

Professional references can be from a current or past employer, someone you have worked with or volunteered with, or from an education setting such as a teacher. They must have known you for at least two years. 

Character references must be from someone who knows you well on a personal level. It can be a friend, or someone you work with, volunteer with etc. It cannot be a family member. They must have known you personally for at least two years. 

DBS - You will be required to complete a DBS check. You will need photo and proof of address ID for this. 

**Please check your Junk email folder in case any emails end up here, we will be touch with you within a few days by email. Friendly reminder that the charities/organisations emails may end up here too. **

Skills

Empathy & Compassion: Understanding the emotional needs of socially isolated or end-of-life individuals and offering them comfort and companionship with kindness.

Good Communication: Being able to listen actively and engage in meaningful conversation, while also respecting the wishes and limitations of the person you’re visiting.

Patience: Some residents may have physical or cognitive impairments, so being patient and understanding is crucial.

Reliability & Commitment: Since these visits can be life-changing for the residents, being dependable and following through with your time commitment will have a positive impact.

Sensitivity to End-of-Life Issues: Comfortably engaging with people at the end of their lives, respecting their emotions, and understanding the environment of a nursing home.

Flexibility: The ability to adapt to different interests and needs, whether you’re working on a puzzle, having a conversation, or engaging in other activities.

Respect for Privacy: Understanding the importance of confidentiality and respecting personal space and boundaries.

Problem-Solving: The ability to adapt your approach if a person’s mood or needs change during a visit.